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 The early days of the accidental opportunity, in a management learning the magazine to see Taiwan inspirational enterprise management consulting Co., LTD is prone to President Mr. Long wrote "not impossible" this book, the feeling in the book of this "thing itself is not influence people, people only by the influence of the view of things" point of view, enabled me to work methods and find out the problems on the way out much progress, so here want to share with you friends, I'm learning this book some of the comments, hope in this complicated world when you can't find a way out, from my little progress to inspire others.

Former people must think "water can't go back," now we just know, that is because at the time the people haven't found the invention of the pump method; Now, people must think "the sun can't come out from the west", but the person of the future might say, that's because we have not found let humans lived in a "the sun just out from the west" planet's method. Actually these various things are not impossible, only a temporary haven't found the success of the process it. If personal way of thinking will decide something results, so when our hearts feel the impossible, the result is really impossible. So, if we use for making excuses of time focusing on looking for the words method, the results should be a lot of things would have been different.

In real life, we are faced with difficult or challenging, must be predetermined goal, completes the overall plan and plan, so that we can receive the wasted effort effect, otherwise no purpose repeatedly blind a busy will only make matters worse. As the saying goes, "anyone who is made, the unpreparedness spells failure", and just about what you want to solve the things clear goals, can we reach a detailed feasible plan, and have the detailed feasible plan, and the rest is the execution of the problem. So, if you have a problem from the start, first thought is "impossible", that there will not be any so-called goal, won't have what detailed feasible plan, let alone will have good intellectual and results. In fact, that is the thing itself does not affect people, who only by the influence of the view of things the outcome of things.

Nowadays the society increasingly fierce competition, people may also will be so low to the bottom line of the social ethics, put personal interests see more than any previous era are important, and many times not only appear things none has high hung phenomenon, appear even let own greedy and selfish superior to the team on, these are the long-term development of the enterprise is extremely disadvantageous. As noted, if you only to himself, time for a long time many people also "minus" drop you; Do not deny that "for his" is one of human nature, but if put it too big that into "selfish". If you have the interest of others is a selfish as the price, that you will lose more. We all know that "two heads are better than one", many things are on the team to complete, so when people in a team, interpersonal communication let quite important. Learn to respect others, we must first correct see yourself, be grateful to treat you of the side of every man; In daily work "compassion" is one of the high efficiency to rule, which requires us to should stand in the point of view of the parties and position, objective understanding other people's feelings, during which the most important is to learn to communicate attentively ", because any communication skills should be based on a sincere. Believe that through this fruitful emotional cultivation, we will be in the growth of the team in the process of the company for the development of bring more profit.

From the society recognized standards, success is only a few things; In accordance with the standards of personal if, in fact, everyone can succeed. As long as you have the expected goals, and objectives can reach, that you will be called success. Most of the time and not we don't succeed, but success is very simple, that is originally simple things repeatedly to do, to make simple things not ordinary, and in real life are a lot of people don't succeed, or not he don't know or can't do simple things, and because not willing to do these simple and of repetition. The more the more simple in now often easy thing, people also is often don't want to be, and eventually lead to a lot of things are not in accordance with our expected planning on, can be in only looking at others after successful) not regret at deplore.

Life is like sailing ships of the seas, maybe we will never be able to control the wind, but at least we can adjust the sail direction; Maybe a lot we can't control the weather when, but at least we can adjust the mood of the self. And the differences between people, only is a start thinking through different ways, but then it is for this but let things results are much different. Often a false results, just a start from your wrong idea, if the wrong idea, in you set out to do something before they are found words, actually a lot of things can be in accordance with our intend to development, this is what we sometimes and success in the shoulder because. So, we each one has a chance of success, as long as you confident enough, and adhere to a little bit of progress every day, even if only a bit, believe that these will be your successful elements accumulated so that your life will be change as a result.