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(simple man not mediocrity
Simple + black, this is the main melody in my closet. In retrospect, even in the white of waving s, I wear much is black. However, young men in LuXiangTing era, wear black is and the Hong Kong film who the boss of learning. Except this reason, like the black for many years is probably a kind of instinct aesthetic, because black can be a very good hide, especially in the night, flap about in the street, can be a real and the world together.
Pursuit of simple dress, is exclusive to men a way of life. Fashion magazines about men dress introduce is multifarious, actually with a word can be summarized: dressed like a man. Men need not spend what dress mind, want to save trouble of words, a few jeans, a dozen shirts, some coats, just enough to go out at any time. But now, in the men's clothing label or obvious role, "clothes make the man" the truth still not obsolete, when the people around us to learn all do not judge by appearances, then who can really experience the simple pleasure of the dress.
Wear simple clothes simple, have simple mind is not an easy thing. To say that men are children, it is the language of the helplessness of the woman named, is also part of the language of the man beautify yourself, how could a man are children? They are all power admirer, are hunters, is the law of the jungle of the battlefield of the soldiers, on the history of American, big misses, war traffickers, were almost all men, their heart all possess a complex institution, the organization operation precision, he will be a position. For better or worse, they are all winners, but they are difficult to have the joy of success, because they have no simple heart.
In other words, the happy man alive, and because there are simple heart. Want to have simple mind, will not worldly, wasn't good at calculate, don't care about the gain and loss...... So seemingly simple, actually want to test a man's heart is simple, almost equal in validation of which he possessed all virtue together can not reach the standard of "simple". Simple not ignorance, but experience complex and jump from complex after being. Simple is to forgive, is big love, is grief, is great wisdom, not weak-minded.
To pursue simple man alive has a lot of. Such as those who go to work, the work on time at man, top, the income is not high pressure, under "we grow old by deserting our idea" such negative evaluation bring blow, in all the time to start their stand aside, the reason is very simple: don't want to go with all sorts of people, too lazy to a point to a hair settle accounts, they are willing to pay a force earn a hard money, cannot become the nouveau riche not do not have enough to eat and wear not warm. Such a man, it's cool, don't know why they women always nagging to force them to make more money, a man as long as not lazy even qualified, as for efforts to what state, it depends on the size of the driving force of their heart, lose a rich man in exchange for a "life home", for women and families, quite cost-effective.
Some men than it said that a man live to more simple, they even simple family are not willing to establish, have a fantasy days, today in Paris to drink coffee, tomorrow is in and out of the London subway, they love is in the hand of the camera, their home is YiGuGu hotel. This kind of man is an object of envy to a lot of men, not in the family's troubles, no wife and children's trap, a person had a full house not hungry, old in "no time find a quiet place, waiting for the end of life. But envy to envy, want to copy to see to pay huge courage, had the courage and do not represent can copy success, this kind of life seems simple, actually need very strong action and material basis to support.
Simple doesn't mean mediocrity. In fact many successful person also have simple heart. In pursuit in business, they only know a simple truth: determine the direction and goal, that would go walked, no matter in the process of marching any trouble and problems, do not allow them to stay, instead of those mind complex, just can have, picked up sesame the watermelons.
Some people nature simple, some people return to simple, the former is a godsend, the latter is a philosophical meaning with the choice. Often gather friends together, several times the expression of the desire: wait old, may we all are happy old man, can't faces the sea blooming and drinking wine play mahjong is always can go. )
Simple people not mediocre, both men and women, I think are applicable, learn to do simple people, this is a kind of state.
Often hear said the old man, the person to simple alive, it is a kind of happiness, but to do real simple but is not simple. Like this on said, simple and not really simple, but after the complex, a transcendence and supreme realm of life, it is an attitude, a life of accumulation and precipitation, some people might not understand his life, it needs the mind constantly accomplishment and deep connotation, state is to realize, as the enlightenment, disillusioned is achievement they don't ordinary important way. Some people's simple is innate, of course, a good family education and example is life just open bridge, a lot of things and the accumulation of mind, and the feeling of life are generated in step by step.
The XiCi on "think qian trigram kungua through the change that wisdom, hexagrams kun through simple to display the ability. Grasp the change and simple, take the way of heaven and earth. So "dry in an easy to know, in to Jane can." "Easy to Jane, and right of the world will do." The ancients to heaven and earth, all things, social research, and the life and health. The world that's syndrome differentiation of everything to hold proper, simple is sometimes easy, simple sometimes just is not easy.
Simple is not common people can blend into and achieve state, in this in libidinal city, not really a few people can do simple, enlightenment and detachment of the mind can be said to be a kind of our experience with the equivalent of wealth, it not everyone has the yearning, it is a minority pursuit.
Do not think that just looking, luxuriant people is a grade, don't think standout is often not the ordinary, the more exquisite the outer layer of the appeal, the more it is to ignore the warm heart. I always believe that face the mind, temperament is from the inside out,
Fix for the inner and outside itself is sometimes, silent sometimes better than flowed, low-key but is not the ordinary mediocrity, really able to make simple truth, will surely is the soul of noble, the heart of the broadness amounts, and thought of the ChenHou, is able to taste a light Ming, blows with a cool breeze, mentally leisurely wit, composed, to experience "picking asters neath the eastern fence, carefree and see nanshan" quiet and tastefully laid out pride, can feel "GuanJin feather fan, and its dust OARS, between" charming romantic.
