It used to be a mystery 2

Now, I'm a 24-year-old sophisticated young adult. Sometimes I long for the days when sex seemed like a big mystery. Not because sex now seems dirty, but because it's something that should be fun and accompanied by true love. It should be spontaneous - not something you do in order to fit in.

 

Frankly speaking, I do regret having had sex before marriage. What I hate is that it happened at the wrong time, with the wrong person, I should have saved my first time for someone I truly loved.

 

I have a few acquaintances who rushed into marriage when they were too young. They couldn't wait to have sex. I also know someone who chose to have casual sex over a serious relationship. They all regret their decisions. Believe me, having sex too early or too soon can ruin a relationship - or even your life.

 

 

短语学习：

 

be in a serious relationship 认真地恋爱

 

long for 渴望

 

true love 真爱

 

fit in 融入

 

frankly speaking 坦率地说

 

run into marriage 匆忙地结婚

 

have casual sex 滥交

 

regret one's decision 对某人的决定感到遗憾

 

ruin a relationship 毁掉一段关系

 

have sex before marriage 婚前就有性行为

 

 

单词学习

 

accompany v. 伴随，伴有

 

acquaintance n. 熟人

 

ruin v. 毁坏

 

frankly adv. 坦率地

 

mystery n. 神秘

 

sophisticated adj. 久经世故的；复杂的

 

spontaneous adj. 自发的；本能的

 

regret vt. 后悔，惋惜

 

casual adj. 随便的

 

marriage n. 婚姻，结婚

 

long v. 渴望

 

rush v. 仓促；匆忙