Life, is a compromise

Watching the movie, give me the deepest impression, in addition to inside of glistening silver, is the line - when the heroines in the film to life is full of despair, one of her also undergo hassles friend that try to tell her. So fashionable language appeared with 19 century China as the background of the film, if say this sentence that is a robe jacket with big long braid Chinese, estimate Bradley go to the cinema to half of the audience, but also good, her friend is a blond foreign women.

Regardless of the lines in the movie is appropriate, but this sentence is concerned, its classical degree must be more than the film itself.

Life, of course, not only by the compromise composition, it contains too many elements, such as hard work, withdrawal, and strive to, depression, and so on, but there is no doubt that make possible the continuation of life, through our life history from beginning to end, be sure of in life is playing the kind of adhesive elements - compromise.

Skip over our growth period, let's put the recall cut to just to work, when you face one of the unfamiliar faces, feel the eyes of apathy, suspicion and hostility, you should keep your so-called personality, hide your heart capricious and unruly, again with the most sincere smile and most fiery eyes to melt colleagues in the eyes of the cold? Thought the genius of whether you also have to give your eye mediocre man against his will praise? And, this is compromise, this is not our life give us the first class, but our real life course start from here.

With your talents among his colleagues come to the fore, leading to you recognized and put you in a management job, in the face of hard work, in the face of you have never had experience of cooperation colleague, how can you get their support, how to arouse their enthusiasm to let them work hard? This, he needs to be "run-in, and the running-in process is actually a mutual collision, tempted, compromise, communication process. In this process, because of the difference of ideology, the work method is different, the lack of cooperation experience, will appear friction or conflict, but these friction is by no means in opposition with you, this is a necessary process, this process you are tempted to observe them, and they are in observation test you, observe your character, ability, to control the level of the work.

How to deal with? Is not simply oppress people by force, high above, to let them fully adapt to the way you, that kind of retarded management way will let you become isolated, are not you give up ego, follow their ideas, but in each other on the basis of sincere, achieve finally understand each other, get along with harmonious.

It need? - - - - - each other compromise. Of course, this must compromise with your principle and the rationality of the work for the bottom line.

When you spend safety period, use your wisdom and personality charm will they conquer, you will find that, not majesty, not power, but reasonable compromise, is it helps you a lot, is it make you get the colleague's approval,

When we experience a love of sweet, marched into the marriage hall, you may find that the premarital never fear, coquetry play dia let you so love girl suddenly became ROM miles bothersome, jiao jiao qi, make you feel extremely tired women. The premarital very handsome cool, very individualize let you extremely admire big boy suddenly became a nasty thing, cranky made it as hard for you to accept the stink man, would you regret choice?

Perhaps, we most people marriage is in a chance, because young that we don't know what we really want is what, even know that we cannot arrange their own fate, so when we take to future vision of the plunge into marriage, as would be the change might make you disappointed.

Marriage but there are three forms: or you adapt to him, or he adapt to you, or to adapt to each other. If not, inevitable scarred or separate ways, this, it is not what we want. So, at this time, if each other and love, if the family have reason to exist, then, compromise and then the embark upon a political venture, weak compromise in strong, lazy compromise to hard-working, silent compromise in such a windbag, -- -- -- -- -- -, etc all this compromise become a habit, marriage is the up-and-up the.

Marriage is not a game, it regardless of you strong I weak, you lose more not I win, in its rules inside, a lose both lose, win-win to win, the perfect marriage, is each other mutual compromise, mutual tolerance, is the way of thinking, human life and even food flavors of highly tacit understanding, is any disguise cannot escape each other FaYan heart eye to eye.

Compromise is everywhere, like now, when you sit through my articles, this, also be a kind of compromise, the chaotic characters of compromise.