Road life is not
always smooth sailing, KanKanKeKe life journey, need those words of
wisdom with our forward, make our progress become more strongly.
1. Go his own way, also want to see what others say.
Every
man is a member in the society, we are each other in a mutual contact
of the organic whole. All our activities are closely linked.
But
some people are always love singing "go your own way let others say"
high-profile, a pair of cool it appearance, actually the heart is
extremely contradictory. You can't accept will show a pair of
indifferent attitude.
Actually again in this day and age, go his own
way, also want to see what others say yourself. In this self
consciousness rapid expansion s, those who feel good, walk always look
up the sky, and the children of gad, and were springing up from the
ground, social indifference
phenomenon more and more obvious. At this time, other people's
evaluation is very important for you. Whether the evaluation of their
family, colleagues own evaluation of candidates or to your evaluation
is a valuable life wealth. Others read you good evaluation is you
connect again again fierce power. In fact, those who dare to face to
face with hu you faults talent is thanks to you, we will cordially to
close to them, try to meet next time when they find everything fresh
and new feeling, from gossip, criticism of snatching successful power.
2. Free lunch if not trap is a kind of burden.
An
absolute since ancient times "there is no free lunch". Don't spend
money things actually is the most expensive. Many people want to have
something for nothing is an ideal state. But in the end they are things
go contrary to one's wishes. Ancient that wait for windfalls and did
not get picked up the first rabbit experience and hit the jackpot, it
is like robbing Peter to pay Paul, got sesame lost watermelon. Or a
society is full of love, but you also might as well put your thoughts
make more complicated. Stranger's charity, the sense and the benefits of to, if not a trap is a kind of burden.
Three. From every minutes satisfied.
Happiness
consists in contentment is a noble life character. We have to learn how
to from the life every minute get satisfy. God to each one of us is
fair, each person a day is 24 hours, but we have to learn how to put
every minute are fully use up, with every minute to earn more useful
value. Like Albert Einstein, sima qian that, put his life every minute
have full and from every minute get satisfy.
Four. Community will not wait for you to grow.
You don't always in their
own eyes to ask for society, after all, a person's strength is thin,
the society will not because of your a move and change, the planet does
not because your complaints hungry unit stop turning. There are a lot
of things is what we can't change. Such as - the universe spherical
rotation and revolution. Society will not wait you to grow, we only
from their own subjective conditions, make the subjective and objective
perfect unification, to create the piece to belong to own sports.
Five. Choice is more important than efforts.
Blind
effort is in vain, select a correct goal than you pay one thousand
times as much as one hundred times more important efforts. In a long
life journey, need you do your best moment a lot, but now you only find
his life goal, as the light itself to go forward on the road of the
lamp, let you let the dog see on the way and thorns, and you can better
blaze a trail, put forward the direction pointed to success, no win the final success.
Six. Learn "silly" than learning "wisdom" more difficult.
In
today's diversified this big background, the people face competition is
becoming more and more fierce, interpersonal the moment become very
important, but it is more important to you in dealing with all kinds of
interpersonal relations means. Secretly fruity processing means at the
moment is worth learning. Met you good at things, you should learn to
have, play hard to get. But when those
Benign, objects on your
heart, is to improve your alert, awake brain height. We have to learn
to put in "stupid", but also learn how euphemistic refused to act on
its own strength to to others, or you will lose a lot of, including,
friends and good faith.
Seven. In singles to read on the way all dead tired.
One
boy is a boy, two boys half a boy, three boys no water to drink story
had already known, whether in life work or study, we all have to learn
how to cooperation relation with efficiency. Song "unity is strength"
is not intense thousands of children in to the overthrow of the fascist
dictatorship and hard? You should always remember, no matter you are a
good man, how did you have it, only you can get the society to admit
that you are a man of success. But to succeed you must learn to be good
to others, learn to cooperate with others. Learn to share is a happy
thing. And other people cooperation, you not only improves the
efficiency, but also to strive for to more time to close to success.
When you one person can complete the work was completed two people,
don't you couldn't improve the efficiency, can you still to hungry to
share of fun.
Eight. In the face of the damage to forgive, but not forget.
Lie
to swim a friend, is the kind of real right. She is very friendly to
people, but also to help philharmonic. In view of the single's sake,
every time pay, people will think she is single, should do not have
what big spending, were back to hold different an excuse to township
lend her some money, and every time she will be kind to them, for they
are acquaintance, she thought they must have HuiHai own. But for many
years have passed away, to lend her some money friends are rich up, but
she still alone. 8-page remain a lot, sheet is go to her and to borrow
money. But she has habit is a second nature, or in the oral promise
after they put the money borrowed and others. She also has repeatedly
think I complained,, I advised her face team damage to forgive, but not
forget, when she accepted, but afterwards or do not change.
I want to say to your friends: "when faced with damage to forgive, but not forget" because then you wouldn't have been hurt.
Nine. The pursuit of money is not equal to worldliness.
Saying
word "money is not everything," single in the modern materialistic
enrichment of s, no money, you are nothing. Money not for sweet love,
not to change the health and happiness. But if you don't have money for
basic you have how to pursue the romantic love? If you are ill have no
money to give or take an injection take medicine/you will recover? We
want to pursue money, love money, but more important is to set up the
correct terms, in the spirit of "gentleman's the love of money take
youdao" "money is not everything, but no money is nothing".
All say you pursue money doesn't equal worldliness.
Ten. Grin and bear it is life's a required course.
The
society is so unimaginably queer letting a person, unfair phenomenon
countless. Both you and I have to learn how to roll with the punches.
There are a lot of things is our power, we can't go to create the
environment, we the prisoners can do is learn to accept, when adversity
raids, we
have to learn how to adjust state of mind, with positive and optimistic
attitude to cotton team frustration. When you find whatever you is
facing prosperity or adversity, your new capital will not therefore and
frustration, visit the edge in the distance you beckoning.
Hope these a few words can give your heart to bring silk touches, make you in this winter no longer cold.
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