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2012-08-24 11:18:26

Road life is not always smooth sailing, KanKanKeKe life journey, need those words of wisdom with our forward, make our progress become more strongly.

1. Go his own way, also want to see what others say.
Every man is a member in the society, we are each other in a mutual contact of the organic whole. All our activities are closely linked.
But some people are always love singing "go your own way let others say" high-profile, a pair of cool it appearance, actually the heart is extremely contradictory. You can't accept will show a pair of indifferent attitude.
Actually again in this day and age, go his own way, also want to see what others say yourself. In this self consciousness rapid expansion s, those who feel good, walk always look up the sky, and the children of gad, and were springing up from the ground, social indifference phenomenon more and more obvious. At this time, other people's evaluation is very important for you. Whether the evaluation of their family, colleagues own evaluation of candidates or to your evaluation is a valuable life wealth. Others read you good evaluation is you connect again again fierce power. In fact, those who dare to face to face with hu you faults talent is thanks to you, we will cordially to close to them, try to meet next time when they find everything fresh and new feeling, from gossip, criticism of snatching successful power.

2. Free lunch if not trap is a kind of burden.
An absolute since ancient times "there is no free lunch". Don't spend money things actually is the most expensive. Many people want to have something for nothing is an ideal state. But in the end they are things go contrary to one's wishes. Ancient that wait for windfalls and did not get picked up the first rabbit experience and hit the jackpot, it is like robbing Peter to pay Paul, got sesame lost watermelon. Or a society is full of love, but you also might as well put your thoughts make more complicated. Stranger's charity, the sense and the benefits of to, if not a trap is a kind of burden.


Three. From every minutes satisfied.
Happiness consists in contentment is a noble life character. We have to learn how to from the life every minute get satisfy. God to each one of us is fair, each person a day is 24 hours, but we have to learn how to put every minute are fully use up, with every minute to earn more useful value. Like Albert Einstein, sima qian that, put his life every minute have full and from every minute get satisfy.

Four. Community will not wait for you to grow.
You don't always in their own eyes to ask for society, after all, a person's strength is thin, the society will not because of your a move and change, the planet does not because your complaints hungry unit stop turning. There are a lot of things is what we can't change. Such as - the universe spherical rotation and revolution. Society will not wait you to grow, we only from their own subjective conditions, make the subjective and objective perfect unification, to create the piece to belong to own sports.

Five. Choice is more important than efforts.
Blind effort is in vain, select a correct goal than you pay one thousand times as much as one hundred times more important efforts. In a long life journey, need you do your best moment a lot, but now you only find his life goal, as the light itself to go forward on the road of the lamp, let you let the dog see on the way and thorns, and you can better blaze a trail, put forward the direction pointed to success, no win the final success.

Six. Learn "silly" than learning "wisdom" more difficult.
In today's diversified this big background, the people face competition is becoming more and more fierce, interpersonal the moment become very important, but it is more important to you in dealing with all kinds of interpersonal relations means. Secretly fruity processing means at the moment is worth learning. Met you good at things, you should learn to have, play hard to get. But when those
Benign, objects on your heart, is to improve your alert, awake brain height. We have to learn to put in "stupid", but also learn how euphemistic refused to act on its own strength to to others, or you will lose a lot of, including, friends and good faith.

Seven. In singles to read on the way all dead tired.
One boy is a boy, two boys half a boy, three boys no water to drink story had already known, whether in life work or study, we all have to learn how to cooperation relation with efficiency. Song "unity is strength" is not intense thousands of children in to the overthrow of the fascist dictatorship and hard? You should always remember, no matter you are a good man, how did you have it, only you can get the society to admit that you are a man of success. But to succeed you must learn to be good to others, learn to cooperate with others. Learn to share is a happy thing. And other people cooperation, you not only improves the efficiency, but also to strive for to more time to close to success. When you one person can complete the work was completed two people, don't you couldn't improve the efficiency, can you still to hungry to share of fun.

Eight. In the face of the damage to forgive, but not forget.
Lie to swim a friend, is the kind of real right. She is very friendly to people, but also to help philharmonic. In view of the single's sake, every time pay, people will think she is single, should do not have what big spending, were back to hold different an excuse to township lend her some money, and every time she will be kind to them, for they are acquaintance, she thought they must have HuiHai own. But for many years have passed away, to lend her some money friends are rich up, but she still alone. 8-page remain a lot, sheet is go to her and to borrow money. But she has habit is a second nature, or in the oral promise after they put the money borrowed and others. She also has repeatedly think I complained,, I advised her face team damage to forgive, but not forget, when she accepted, but afterwards or do not change.
I want to say to your friends: "when faced with damage to forgive, but not forget" because then you wouldn't have been hurt.

Nine. The pursuit of money is not equal to worldliness.
Saying word "money is not everything," single in the modern materialistic enrichment of s, no money, you are nothing. Money not for sweet love, not to change the health and happiness. But if you don't have money for basic you have how to pursue the romantic love? If you are ill have no money to give or take an injection take medicine/you will recover? We want to pursue money, love money, but more important is to set up the correct terms, in the spirit of "gentleman's the love of money take youdao" "money is not everything, but no money is nothing".
All say you pursue money doesn't equal worldliness.

Ten. Grin and bear it is life's a required course.
The society is so unimaginably queer letting a person, unfair phenomenon countless. Both you and I have to learn how to roll with the punches. There are a lot of things is our power, we can't go to create the environment, we the prisoners can do is learn to accept, when adversity raids, we have to learn how to adjust state of mind, with positive and optimistic attitude to cotton team frustration. When you find whatever you is facing prosperity or adversity, your new capital will not therefore and frustration, visit the edge in the distance you beckoning.
Hope these a few words can give your heart to bring silk touches, make you in this winter no longer cold.
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