The people who exactly knows when to say "NO" to some one else in what condition is such an intelligent people. However, Joey is excluded from these people. He thought a lot of his friends Chandler and Monica when he got to know that the relationship between them had changed to love offair, but that bothered him.
When Chandler's underwear appeared in the living room where Monica, Rachel and Phoebe lived, Joey had to pretended to admit it was his and then took it back; When Joey took his first-day-met girlfriend to his house and be ready to make love with her, the girl saw the blanket in the living room with a video arounding, she thought maybe Joey wanted to tape their sex scene into the video, she just ran away. Unfortunately, Rachel saw it as it happened. Then Joey had to made a deceit that he was making low-budget adult films; When Joey happened to saw Monica's naked photo which Chandler forgot to hide, Rachel was right there in the back of him. Still, in order to kept the secret between Chandler and Monica, he became the scapegoat for the third time.
I really understand how Joey felt when he was misunderstood by some other people for he had made a promise to Chandler and Monica to keep the secret. I myself had almost the same experience as Joey met.
When I and cotemporary people used to be young, we were deeply effected by the spirit of errantry in JinYong's books. We were taught to be a responsible man, but we ignored the more important thing that we should not always be the man who responsible for everything. So, it's easy to see we were often trapped into awkard
scenes for the sake of sticking up for our friends. As I grow up to be an adult, I know that something is more complicated than just respond for it, expecially in our sociaty. It's why the people who have justice become more and more exiguous, that just because they could not afford to taking the responsibility.
That's doleful, but there seems to be no other way to solve it. It becomes a problem for all our diseased society.
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