In memories of the past, often want to remove some of the pieces, want to return to the moment rewrite life, always feel that as long as can change once upon a time, life would be better now. But time can't back, life can't clip, can only go to the future with regrets.
Everyone has a want to remove the memory, as long as the thought of this memory has a stain or dark times in life is this feeling, will fantasy: if can like editing video, you can cut off the unwanted segments, then life will become perfect. But it is still a hypothetical, but is in deepening their pain. Because people do not remove the memory, the memory of those in every thought of, will be a pain, although want to be able to forget, but will all the more for forget pain.
Life has a lot of forks in the road, we need to make a choice. In the past, we chose one way, but more walk more difficult, began to regret why not choose another road, will be better than now. So we can imagine, like video rewind, pour the time back to the past is about to choose moment, firmly choose a may be a better way, then you can have a happier than now. This thought not only failed to reduce regret, will deepen their own hatred. Because think again good, also impossible to achieve, or want to face the unpleasant situation after all.
Life is not a TV show or movie, although you are a hero, determines the development of part of the story, but you are not a director, nor the editor, can't delete or change the follow one's inclinationsly plot. Can actually change the Angle to think, if do not have the past, there would be no now of oneself, even if had already suffered a lot of bitterness, but there must be some happy and harvest, just covered you with painful eyes, forget.
Life cannot be edited, can only be brave in the face of the shadow of the past, now and in the future. Face, see through, can put down the burden in the heart, with hope and determination to change from now on. Don't change the past, but it can depict the blueprint of the future, according to the blueprint bit by bit to create a better future.
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