Don't do greenhouse flowers

As a doctor, every day and dealing with patients, many years of clinical practice experience, not only gives excellent leechcraft, also causes me to see a lot of truth, get a lot of enlightenment. Among them, the patients with environmental conditions and physical pain threshold is particularly outstanding, and it looks like a timeless formula: people all aspects of the condition is superior, the pain threshold of the poor. On the contrary, those who have suffered a lot, through difficulties and hardships, but show astonishing perseverance and strong.

Yesterday morning, a 14 years old young for acute appendicitis sees a doctor, huge pain made him painful face cannot tell where is the tears, which is sweat, with his only anxious mother. Check finished and I picked up the medical records, tell them, must be immediately in hospital operation. Mother is busy to deal with formalities, but children almost cried out to consulting: "doctor, can not do surgery?" "Children, don't worry, before the operation will play anesthesia, won't painful." "No, I am not afraid of 庝, I am worried about my mother take not expensive operation. Last year, my father have to liver cancer death, debt is not pay off, if I am to be in hospital, I'm afraid my mom her......" Understanding how sensible child, my heart can not help as one of the chatter. But no matter how to must surgery.

Afternoon just went to work, he found a group of people to be accompanied by a retinue carried a about twenty years old young man crowded come in, "doctor, quick to see, children have a stomachache. Is appendicitis, need to immediately surgery, a listen to surgery, the young man crying loudly: "my mama ah, I don't do surgery, I'm afraid." "Don't be afraid, small operation." "Cheating, it's to cut meat ah, you are quick to give me open the best medicine, playing the best needle, please the best doctor, my family have a plenty of money." The part say side even with tic tread. The people around busy 1 vigorously to comfort him: "baby, don't be afraid, I not the operation." But anyway, life key, surgery as usual.

Today the morning ward round, I an enter a door, he saw the young took the mother's hand lovingly says: "mama, you go back to have a rest, I can do it myself." "Children, surgery better?" I asked, young pale face grateful to have to smile: "doctor, thank you, much better, I must actively cooperate with treatment, the hospital for early." Words did not say that finish, suddenly "bang" sound, as if something falling on the floor. Fine on see, is the GongZiGe pampered, cell phone in anger and broke up, return in mouth keep Shouting: "you give me to get out, I surgical wound too painful, it can not stand, I don't want to live."

The same disease and the same operation, the same treatment, but treat sickness is two completely different attitude and performance. No wonder people often say that the poor children early alone, rich door easy out of the black sheep of his family. Murphy material is developed, the spirit out of it? In the life, we often meet such a few things, more than 20 years of college students, after admission, he don't know sheet should be spread in the quilt above or below, in the morning, still have to make a phone call to ask mom, the dining room have steamed stuffed bun, and Fried dough sticks don't know should eat what, the day was cold do not know what to wear clothes. Broke open mouth, as if parents are saving bank. Arrange work completed, building to decorate good, marriage to make arrangements, later children also have to look after the thoughtful.

So, there are times when people is like a potted flower, if long-term growth in greenhouses and spoil, inertial, meticulous caress the. Never very delicate gorgeous, glorious takes a person, however, once the storm raids, it will not be able to parry. And those who clearly growth in the hills, the grass under the tree of the nameless flower, but it shows its indomitable vitality. Whether it is cold summer, or being exposed to the elements, whether bicycle roll, or sheep on the horse eat, it will still strong to survive.

Therefore, we can't just stay in the greenhouse, lying in the warm bed. In their parents' wide comfortable arms, in perfect design drawings, the carefree to mix down. In the long run, I'm afraid one day, became an idle disabled person, a no opinions without thinking of the body, in the setbacks and difficulties in front, performance is fragile, vulnerable. If one day lose for shelter harbor, hurry-scurry, at loose ends. Even disappointed despair, for the future of life lost confidence. Therefore, might as well the young bravely go out and worshipped by fate to accept the challenges and hone, not through wind and rain, how see rainbow, no sweat fruit is no flash tasteless.

Life sometimes too satisfactory, but think of something in life. As a person, if not the world experienced vicissitudes of life, ups and downs ups and downs, it is impossible to know the real meaning of life. A flower, not invincible, but beg brilliant. The life is alive, not long, but beg full. When you leave the greenhouse sunshine rain and dew, step into the vast boundless wide, various kinds of test, competitively will surround you. KaoXue, looking for a job, unemployment, brokenhearted, failure. From the rich to the poor, from flourishing to depression and waving, from showily splendor to the desolate ordinary, difference of the head will give you almost choking hopelessness and helpless. What should you do? If you have no the strength to hit, we can only be captured, lay down and die, let the oppressed, so you will always fall into the bottomless abyss, unable to extricate themselves, hopeless.

True warrior, want to dare to face gloomy life, thousand cliff have show, mountains and valleys for flow, facing the challenge, and smile, smile, smile liberally take that. Perhaps you will spell the split, maybe you will beat the was black and blue all over, but you can proudly say: I struggle, I tried, I deserve life. Broken cocoon into adjustment, that is what a romantic, but people often only pay attention to praise butterfly shuangfei love good, just ignore the break a cocoon of twists and turns and suffering, had a headache just know head pain of relaxed, toothache teeth don't know not pain of comfortable, disability, the sound is know the how happiness, in the jaws of death go once man will say: how good it was to be alive. The wound is god's kiss, or hurt, never be forsaken, how to work hard to love, because love is love, so cherish, because wounded pain, so more strong, because failed depression, so only success more excited feeling.

Through the eyes of tears, will be more clear and bright, through the blood of the infatuation, will be more persistent. Through the sweat feet, will be more tough. No cross but ocean, no cross but the JunLing, no climb of