sense of shame

Qi state-owned a person, every time from outside come back, always told his wives and his riches and honour and the people eat rice, can always see these people to visit his home. His wife and followed her husband to find her husband was a surname to eat his sacrifice. After coming home, the wife angry to all these tell concubine, wives for such a husband and feel shame, and then come back from outside the husband to all this total ignorance, still high horse.

─ ─ this is "mencius? Together a wife a concubine chapter" remember a fable.

Mencius borrow this is fable, to those of no in the heart of a powerful person of satire. In ";The fish I desire also chapter >; , and he put the "shame-awareness" of heart, sublimation for maintaining national integrity, since then, "shame-awareness" heart become to measure a gentleman and a mean person an important watershed. Then, one thousand years, we sing "yi Sue together would rather starve to death, also do not eat ZhouSu of that kind of a gentleman's moral integrity, we praise Mr. Zhu ziqing" would rather starve to death, also don't eat American relief grain "the national integrity. "And be killed than be humiliation", "who do not drink the water of stolen spring, LianZhe don't eat a handout" has become a gentleman's motto. So we for those who starve to death in front of a handout LianZhe, to die of thirst flowing in flowing springs of stealing of a righteous man produce spontaneously respect.

Can the backwash, but we played vertigo.
A few years ago, in a factory in South Korea, South Korea female boss to punish China workers, ask them to kneel down,. Among the workers in all, only a Chinese workers SunTianShuai not kneel down. , so our critics write swiftly for the people lost personality and deeply grieved, for these lost face of Chinese migrant workers feel ashamed. Can we imagine, when a wife and family are waiting for you with wages to feed them, you kneel down, it is possible to have this job, your parents may an old lady, your child may will have the money to buy milk powder, money to go to school; Wanted to keep national integrity, not to give the boss kneel down, you will lose the job, you may be a long time couldn't find the right job, your life will be for their parents' old age by certain effect, your children may be you can borrow some money to buy milk powder, to borrow money to pay tuition, and even harder to expect: when such an environment to put before you, I don't know what you want to its attainment, or pieces of righteousness take life?

Often, the meaning of individual person, in many things, we can image, also can be done completely image. But when our life in relation to those we love can survive, when our life affected his can be completed or not given the sacred mission, you still have the courage of its attainment? "Grey steamed people, who without parents? Help hold negative, and its not life. Who no brothers, such as hand such as foot? Who no couples, such as objective as a friend?" Living also carina hoorn, abandon any blame? Just think, you'll never to crony bow and scrape, open, can in order to dislike the son of school can have a career, you will also keep natural that reserved? SunTianShuai move, let a person look up to, but in this condemn these employees, whether a little unkind?

I have no intention in the heart of SIMS to speculate the gentleman of the abdomen, to sing a coward. A gentleman always is a shining lighthouse, me for all the nations model, but it is by no means say there is no line of a gentleman of righteousness is bad. A kind of ideal standard, more than ninety percent of the people are short of, can only explain the norm constraint the peoples are some premature, but not blindly to condemn people's ignorance numb. The problem is realistic social used to test people's moral standards this item rare much, it often will be a cruel choice in each examinee's presence: you to fulfill honor, you want to be a martyr, your wife and family are likely to become a victim, You need to be a good father, good son, a good husband, you are likely to become a real coward. In the face of the wife and children parents, what would you do?

Do you still advocates "starve a matter small, ShiJieShiDa"?

You are standing, whether can also feel waist ache?

I look up to the image of the sage, they are the backbone of our society. But don't think this GuGuTing, in order to an empty concept and ShaShen pursue reclame, this is some of the loss outweights the gain?

In fact, sometimes "shame-awareness" is not so much good ethics, but rather a blank check, lost its actual value, become a bear trademark, became a party chastity memorial arch. Who is willing to let these people do a fearless, to preserve the so-called honor? If a person to do so, and that is to the human life's great contempt.