Once in a book read such penny, a working outside a few years to go home once a boy, and when he returned home to ride at night, the road sees a strange man is knocked down to the earth, and driver had run away. Anxious to wish to go home let he is want to leave, suddenly thought, his family can you also like his parents that waiting for his home? So he threw the man to the hospital, the man so might be saved. Later, learned that the man was a few years he has not seen a pro brother. Fortunately he didn't just stand by, or to the last in his will for life regret and guilt.
Also remember a friend about his yourself story, he just came out in society run business, economic ability is limited, walk in the outside, also do not want to pay for dinner, just a bit late at night back to the dorm cooking porridge fill belly. Once he returned late, thought that give up friend all slept, but see one friends cooked a bowl noodles him at the... Later, after their own efforts finally stand out, in the society has the quite high identity and status. For many years, he still recall the friends he cooked noodles, at that time is not only solved the problem of food and clothing, more important is to warm his heart, he never had the courage, confidence and power. Of course, after the success of his friend had not forgotten the support and help. Now, they are in the same company work, live with a roof, was as good as a brother, or the blame.
Therefore, you do good to others, and life will be good to you. You accidentally do a little bit of good, sometimes often can make you get unexpected or even one hundred times in ten times you give harvest, it also are the results "dripping of grace, when animals are reported" the truth. Interpersonal is mutual, how do you want people to you, you did to others; Also, you don't want others to how to you, you also do not how to go to for other. "Do not have to be done by to blame others in the heart of the responsibility for the heart of the already has persons." If each one of us can so want to do so, interpersonal together have simple easier.
When you respect other people, they will respect you; You pay attention to others, they will pay attention to you; You to be polite, others will be polite to you; Your enthusiasm of persons, others will be enthusiasm for you; And this status and external factors such as no business.
You smile at people, people will give you cool? You have cold, people will smile on you? Bite the hand that feeds you man is not without, but after all, is one of the few.
Not happy time, can think of someone to share, happy ever thought of sharing? Failure in the hopes that have personal undertake together, successful time ever taste with people? A painful one more people share a less pain, a more joy one share more than just a happy, a victory a personal taste is much more than a life fun. These have you done?
Have a heart of injustice afflicted and looking for someone to talk to, others injured you ever will have the patience to listen to other people say? Others may have an umbrella with you through share, when someone walking alone in the rain in the rain, you ever borrow an umbrella in others with a?
We wrestling, will remember someone in the pull yourself, but when others wrestling, but forget to pull someone a; Others hurts us, we gravamen, outraged, and gnasheth with his teeth, very anxious to take people eat live section, but forgot to have oneself how hurt others; We disappointed of time, others a simple greeting were moved desperately, but when others in, but he himself "silence is golden", or even a pair of "things none, hang up high has", "sweep the door, the snow's roof tube frost on". Or "ungrateful" "Bridges"...................
Always think to get more, but never thought, not pay which have found? Are some little emotional pay just, it is easy for us to, easy things, why is it so stingy, disdains going to do? No matter you in life's success on the stage, the ability, as long as it is people, always have one. The door shut in your face we all "eat" too much, you put your door shut to others, when one day you need someone to help other people to shut the doors to you. You don't blame others. First review yourself, you have to others? If not, I'm sorry, others don't need to play host to Mr Profile.
From others can find his own shadow, make you more clearly see my own shortcomings and to correct and perfect. When your body of some faults in others also exist, you are using the vision to see how others, will know others also is to use the vision to see how you. Will know, you in another mind what accounts for deal, is popular or not popular, and also can let you for others casual the wrong embrace a understanding and tolerant attitude.
From others can also set off your own behavior, let you see what kind of person they belong. Look at the people around you, the majority are good or evil are in the majority? If you think that's bad is in the majority, is not necessarily going to you is more than a good, that ye way "like-minded" say is this truth; If you think that is a good man is in the majority, visible you might not is more than a bad man. The person with the turbidity is always hard to mix together, black and white always have its boundaries. People don't often say "birds of feather flock together"? Say also that is the reason why. From this may reflect a person's life circle, the group of people around, interpersonal relations in which a level position. Just as in ancient times often someone took "high society" "middle society" grade to the same relationship, what is the talent and how can coexist in peace, you say the police and the criminal in living together, there is no possibility? Certainly not, because of each other the different status, have conflicts, between the people get along so also no more than.
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