Because the child play truant, don't want to go to school on Internet cafe, in their parents' try their best to can't change the children, of children's in helpless, not think of is that children should also raised my hand against the mother played and start still know only children impulse, but don't know why, the child is getting more and more severe, as long as it is good to the appropriate angry, will begin, as parents how also not understand, since the childhood is very obedient sensible child, today why would become so cruel, many found the child's eyes revealed XiongGuang, let mother chilling, how the child, is who took the children today came into this shape? In our studio in helpless for help, hope to be able to find the answer here psychological teacher, find the child's happy and happy.
In the consultation in understanding arrives, from parents is very spoiled children, as long as children like little appearance allows, the kids is very attractive, both in not before or at school are outstanding, let parents feel very proud and very satisfied, and try their best to meet the child, the child's interest is very extensive, weekend are the basic arrangements remedial class, see children so sensible, parents also is people very much after former glory, but do not know why, since the children start early, especially after the third day, the child is like was a changed man, have what words no longer find parents communication, is to stay in the house, or the Internet, parents and teachers in persuading the help of children have some changes, the important thing is the child's temper more and more big, as long as have not fit will be angry, let the parents are confused, it is not clear how the child, and that child is adolescence normal phenomenon, but also because the work at ordinary times busy, think that over time the children will better, but unfortunately children nowadays almost no one, incredibly evolution to play truant, Internet beat and scold parents, past the sunshine confident child ran where, this is also the problem of Labour as parents.
In communication with your children, and start children very is rejected, and is not willing to let close, with each other relations of easing, the children slowly open your heart, and in telling parents just for his face and glory and ignore their own, in order to their own, don't attend to the feelings of children, let the child in the students and the strangers who is no self-respect, own also know they love yourself, but to their own feeling is their machines, they make money for self-esteem and face machine, they rarely will understand and know yourself, just use their unique ways to request oneself, as long as oneself do not, he will be accused and complain, they love is like a mountain to suppress their winded, let yourself feel suffocated despair, you want to outbreaks but cannot, had to repeatedly anger backlog, just recently really can't stand, I don't want to go on like this, the more they want me to do the more I would not do, feel so happy, the language they to do, in the mind very relaxed, sometimes will doubt whether they own close father mother, in his heart, his mom and dad is not so--
Love is the child needs skills, especially on the adolescent child, love sometimes is a kind of silent damage, as parents don't just take their thinking to measure children, in their own injustice and complain their children, in his own feeling for the children give everything, in order to almost forget his own home, can calm down back to think that what is do what, what we do, have repeatedly said children love, love the family, love really over? Is a kind of what kind of love? As mother in said, for children, which USES her life to awaken also willing to, and even his own life can cherish, take care of bad, you and how to love?
Children need freedom, the child is also need the space that belongs to oneself, do not use love to bound and discipline their children, remember a child in consulting say this, I'd rather go to the jail to closed also don't want to be left out in the cold and the parents outside jokes, don't want to see their differences and cold war, want to run far, alone is so content, how the child, we parents how, believe that every family has a behind unknown story, how to read and operating their own life, as parents need to reflect on whether more? And learn to understand and to read the child, love kids not wrong, the problem is how to grasp and to love, the love of the child as parents is needs to take responsibility.
Mother are willing to use life to awaken the child, if so, and will eventually need to wake up and need to be disillusioned and who? The child is not really crazy enlightenment or parents opinionated, even his own life to give up, to wonder whether you end up far more than is give up himself, in your back in for you who bear the heavy responsibility you want to?
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