Just want to stay in my part of the space, look like books, on line, or watching a movie, like occasionally and friends, chat, for me this like quiet man, so that life may be the best. Others may not understand! But it was my own life to others to understand stem what!
So say to yourself: also is to do this!
The other day and a friend chat, to discuss the topic: "of course is about men, women, marriage" this topic in the high divorce rate should be the most popular today! Walk where can hear people Da said different off point, my friends and I, too, have been in the debate on this problem. Published his great theory, as well as to the problem of simple Da release.
He said: if two people have to divorce, unless can find better than his predecessor of a person to get married, or separation, but the reality is, can find better than his predecessor of the probability of marriage is very small, so the best friends carefully to divorce in careful! That may be the case, but today why high divorce rate? But, especially for us after the 80 generation. After 80 the us, and there may be a lot of people and I am single, believe that many people will and I, in not to look for the individual to get married around the edge.
After 80 the us, have independent economic income, have their own personality and thinking ability, the fact is so! We always wandering in the edge of the married and divorced.
But I think, if married, must be going after much deliberation, and never for any factors and outside yield to marriage, if that, to his is irresponsible and married life is a great choice, married two people must be based on the premise of feelings, hope we all don't because in addition to feelings of outside any reason to go get married, you might say: this material s, what feelings can!
Really, the feelings nothing, but material and what can! All day long we hung in the corner of the mouth to find a rich man married to, ask, have the thought of the girl can really do is have some single to a few money and to get married, I personally think, whether it be for something to get married, but please be sure to believe that with the feelings of the marriage to be able to let the person had a comfortable.
If married, must be going after careful consideration, marriage is a match, to shuffle is to pay the price, friends say, if you can't find a better man than his predecessor, had better not easily attempting to divorce, then I don't think that, edge, not from and, all the while in entanglements state, after divorce, can't find a better than his predecessor of more suitable, may even find more bad than his predecessor, in that way, may be lonely life, that if not depart from it, two people continue to entanglements of life together, shape with stranger marriage? What meaning, and such entanglements life, not too comfortable, not too smooth, sum up, no matter from and not to leave, people should always twisted, then as now own speaking, always married and not getting married in the edge of the wandering, people have private common, always can't satisfy.
Of course, this does not represent the public philosophy, on behalf of my personal shut up! You also don't have to go to recognized!
But I personally think he, marriage, divorce are careful about, whatever the final outcome is what, don't regret to best, marriage must be based on emotions, and divorce is the same, if two people really have no feelings, and why forced together! A free and easy to let go! Is the respect. No affection marriage is immoral, I recognized the point!
Arnold Schwarzenegger, shriver, divorce, they walk through together for 25 years, and they do not love each other! They've got rotten luck between mouth? The 25 years? How come over, many Chinese people really don't understand that one is 63 years old (to enter the grave), a 55 years old, also blind do STH over and over again? They exist between value exchange, now their mission complete. Now, Arnold Schwarzenegger don't need political help, shriver, also no longer need to figure ZouXing man. Their affection to zero, let go for them is the highest realm.
I appreciate Schwarzenegger and shriver,, in so open to the age of let the affection to zero. Let them live better, this is the real meaning of the love it.
Around us. Often will also see a group of young men and women, the zero feelings will then, give up themselves, even give up life, I want to say that don't need, so that people don't understand love true emperor, also not worthy of love, we can learn with westerners, learn their ideas, learn love of state, if we are to together, I can love you very much, but separate, can also be very free and easy. I can get used to the two people happy, but I'm more used to a person's joy,
Often chat with friends said to my personal point of view, and I also appreciate my point of view, remember that a friend said I, a girl not to wear make-up, still in there all day to see what mystery novels, true don't know you is a what kind of girl, indifferent to smile, I can only say, need not know too much "a not in the sense of the brand girl", but like the now of oneself, read the love and life's true emperor, have a dream, can be fighting for it!
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