By the end of 1993, I love and marriage, well have already been married for 14 years. But most are apart two life. Just got married, he served in JiangXiKong after, I in hunan rural elementary school. We are all for his own sacred profession and proud, who never give up her career with each other. Somehow every year I have two long holiday, he also has a half month's visit one's family false, our pay basically spend in transportation, but two young warm heart has finally consolation.
Back in August 94, I'm pregnant. From the end of August I leave the army back to hunan, until the child was born on May 10 days, I didn't see his face, including touching not excessive describe. He said he is a soldier, no special circumstances can't leave. Confined, he pampered my life, elaborate the rubbing the son of each piece diapers, my sadness gradually turns into sweet. Just before leaving time, he didn't say a word, kiss the infant son in the face, patted me on the shoulder, a line of tears from his eyes, to stay, hurriedly carried suitcase out the door. I read his every move, understand a military service responsibility and helpless, also felt he only mention two pieces of clothes and a gold MEDALS SanDengGong the suitcase is so heavy.
This time was a year and a half, respectively. Meanwhile forces have a major military exercise, the exercise after he and face switch, of no fixed abode, the child is too small, and all is not easy, I'll let the to see his ideas, thoughts buried in the heart, especially want to him at the time he wrote the letter. Will he come back, he always said "volunteer for civilian work unit difficult!" I think the only thing I give him support is at ease at home to bring children, each month on a growing son send photos. But I can face colleagues and friends around the zeal of care, sometimes ask "your husband is how to still don't come back", time is long, ask many, care about into doubt, my thoughts and slowly into the hate. That night, I how also can not sleep, very not easy cook daylight, I decided to Cardiff for miles.
I find him he has borrowed from military to ZouGuHe highway, find the scene when he, that is self-evident. I called, cry, play, anyway the carrot and stick approach women against man all put to use, he didn't also a laid a hand on him, he only gently said a sentence "if you think that hit me, heart, that you feel good some really play", let I can not with his fists. Later settled down to slowly to listen to his explanation, he said he is a driver, a situation will leave at any time, leaving the steering wheel, left the work. I asked "between us and love?" He said "in addition to you, I will not have another woman in his life." Blunt he this words, my heart has been thoroughly shaken by a modern women into the traditional woman, "marry a chicken with chicken, married dog with the dog," said goodbye to his beloved work, in jiangxi, joined the highway the family.
Very not easy in together, naturally we double treasures, in the family built a small home. 97 from nine view he was borrowed from the start to fix the nine scene, gan Thai, chang tai highway from today, he camped in, I in jiujiang, we both the husband and wife is also points more less together. But we are very satisfied, after all respectively than before short periods of time, a couple of months back a trip to come back, I also realized as children of the highway, should offer for highway youth. He seldom come back, if encounter I work, he also does not ask my leave. For me, I also realized by three feet platform to three feet gang role change, to adapt to the new nature of work requirements.
Work in charge of this post, I work in the enthusiasm on natural oodles, husband comes back, I still step-by-step, didn't have a day off, I think as a woman, her husband have migrated, to do that is to "hardness of heart", and he is like the road like photos, and every time is a dusty, and exhaustion. But we understand each other we do that is why? Who can experience to our for highway feelings? Is the concern of our leadership from the confused feelings come in, arrange our work, let us and go together. Our gratitude, we content. Call every time he said "task tight, almost no day off every day, on the site, even at night, a policeman didn't sleep safe sleep." I said, "are you tired?" He said that "everyone is such, doesn't matter", sometimes come back, just turn I rest, I want to stay more than he spent two days to walk again, can he turn to move the ten horse the cow pull him also pull not, I know, his heart with the extension of road beat together. When looking at his honor certificate, the in the mind and gained a lot. Honor hard-won, but you will be rewarded, my in the mind for him too happy.
Road is fast completed, maybe some days he will come back, we more than ten years of separation life may end, may also began to another form of separation life. Now due to the extension of the highway, even the same unit, the couple separated case also is many, for the expressway development, many people do not know love away many ErNvQingChang, loving husband and wife. In our province on highway miles, there will be many, many moving story, as long as we do the high speed, every man has his own story, but whatever the olden days, all is (the dream.
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