Often have parents or net friend asked me, their children not obedient, study result not ideal, how to better education their children? To tell the truth, competitive, look at female ChengFeng, are each do parents' common wish, of course, I also is a common the parents of the students. Children are the parents' love nature. To education boy, I think that there is a love for the child's education plays an important role, this is appreciated.
"Good boy is 岀 to boast of," this saying very in principle. To education boy, I think that should first learn how to appreciate the child, no recognition is no education. Appreciation is a kind of understanding and communication, also includes a trust and sure, appreciation, is also a kind of incentive and guide. Recognition, can make the person foster strengths and circumvent weaknesses, can let a child more healthy more grow up happily.
My son likes watching children reading, get the teacher recognition and encouragement, he not only strengthened my confidence, arouse the enthusiasm of study, and later he to sing and art also have a strong interest in. In the home, the son also make me as one of his close friends, no matter what happy or unhappy, he like telling me that, and I share. And I will continue to encourage son, in fact thought the mentality of the trust, understanding son, believe that son is can be good, is the best. To my delight, son saw children's channels, will jump up. I think, it is the power of appreciation! Son is interested in tang poetry, I taught him "the quiet night think", "dawn", "Benjamin agriculture" and "the chorale goose", back out, his mood very depressed. At that time, I was also very worried, but I did not simply to scold and criticism son. I think, the son is back to just three years old may he was a not so easy thing. One day, I came to my son's room, and, behold, a son was playing with toys, I then flat gas and to explain and convince, encourage the son said: "by kay, first of all you can't have thought load, as long as you understand the meaning, the inside of the tang poetry reminds picture series, I believe you back up is can be good." Listen to my explanation of the son of the poem after content, say: "mother, ancient poet how so severe ah, write a picture of the content, so I grew up also want to be a poet." I'll nature smiled. A few days, the poem all carry the good son, see his work hard, and I really feel happy is playing.
Son is always to surprise me. One day, I said "1", "2", he said, was so go on, he said to the "100". He loves listening to music and singing, hold the phone on my ear to listen to, and sometimes you will hear his hum out a few words, although some lyrics is not so "authentic".
Children love to play all nature, my son is no exception. He likes the building blocks, the home of blocks he can build various shapes. He loves to play ball, with him, he will be happy to interact. Bought a small keyboard, he can also be "letter hand" play a few times, but later will took of the battery, see it not ring will run to the and other play companion to play. He loves taking pictures, he used to watch lens, now he will YouMoYouYang to the camera said: "one".
Appreciate the child is also a kind of love, send person rose, the hand there are lingering fragrance. May each all parents use appreciation mentality to trust, understanding the children, let the light in recognition children's heart, let the child constantly to taste the joy of success. Encourage him, let he self-confidence, to go boldly do your own thing and let him know that life is not need too at home, let him give full play to their advantages.
Children wish long, but don't know the body already old. Stick to their children before now gradually produce your mind, consciousness and stubborn, was let oneself very frustrated and worry about.
Thinking of summer to take her to take a walk, she looked up at the HuangYun caused the moonlight, and produce a think feeling picture meaning to: mother/moon protect you/the sun protection you/I will protect you. Darling, impending, this is become visible version of the poetry ah, a proud and pride from this lives. So do parents against every time a further rise in full before the child is full of pride, that kind of feeling than his honor will get proud.
And now ask her: baby baby, do you like most? A little girl firmly answer: like sister. I have no language, hesitate for a while: that like mom? A little girl to consider: like. The sister or mother like? Pressed further, lost face on back to some. Occasionally say like, occasionally will say more like sister. After school the collective life but let the school one we all don't know sister occupied all of her heart, it is a kind of hero worship like, she told us: sister would protect her, will take thing for her to eat...... Anyway, all the good side are all the sister's, we discipline is a kind of bad behavior, failure failure.
Thinking about before sleeping with her, she always use soft body stick me, holding my neck: mom, I hold you, you hold me, our happiness of life together. I don't understand, simple sleep have derived so highly. A little girl proud explanation: the princess and the prince lived a happy life ever since, we together, is happiness of life together. Look at the height of the thinking about her problems, I am not.
She was three and a half or so, I trained her own independent bed, said a gorgeous words: baby baby is now an adult, is elder brother and sister, to their bed. To give her full affirmation and praise will let her complacency, have the courage and power to do I want her to do, is this her little weakness. Now, one to nine, she will automatically go to room, let me help her to take off the clothes, cover yourself up, open the lamp, say a good night. I can safe out here to the delight.
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