Support the friendship to two stars
After graduating from high school after 20 years, 30 years, everyone open society. At this time, to call each other often nickname. In this party, because each other too know each other before the mischievous and weakness, so, no matter how now usages, which inflect strengthened themselves, to no avail. In other words, and in society by "admit" status, property, fame, it doesn't matter, students still identity between of each other's existence. "Childhood sweethearts" friend, the strong place of just here, no worldly evaluation and concern.
And, in order to confirm this, every time will talk about the events of meet before, this is characteristic. From mentioned that time did that, dry what do start, talked about the classmate all kinds of memory. Sometimes tea refreshments, sometimes a piece of eating, drinking while talking about these things, side, the in the mind feel good warmth, think it is good friends. In other words, each other side each other things were confirmed, to recognize each other one side of each other's existence.
"Hey, how we are always talking about the past things?" The dinner, someone notice.
"To talk about a little something about the future." Someone turned to suggest, but few echo. Even if want to talk about the future, but that sort of thing to admit the existence value, they found will fall away from each other "collective" things. Students in the meeting, someone to love yourself now boast proud and annoying, but also because of this.
The distance between friends, children all adults can't easily deal with good.
The students to reference to, exclamation "betrayed by a friend". Originally, he make new friends, quickly close up. Talk about very congenial, do what all move together. Friends back home to temporarily, feel very lonely, so call, he said was ill. He immediately go to visit, friends too, let him live down at night, two people talking happily, forget is sick. Is this kind of relation of the friends, however, when a party puts forward want to borrow a book, the other side refused to say "that book, has lent someone". At that time, feeling "like voice cracked like, friendship is so broken," dear John. It was evolution to this step.
Why should young children so excite? Wait a minute is bad? The other side also have anguish, but many said it. He told his friend request, only allow "telepathy with all my heart," not negotiable.
Adults have similar examples, at its heart, a variety of taboo in the psychological effect of operation. For example, in a friend's party, castle peak ErLang and Lin show at the co-star.
"Hello, Lin, your article no. With every time in here said the different. Every time you drink wine will attack, such as said that seeing van gogh painting how glad it. You said more than written out much more interesting, more vivid, wrote the article but didn't so vivid." Friends of castle peak, that xiao Lin show male just started to darling still answer, gradually lose the usual momentum. Because, the friend said that he didn't refute of leeway, Lin so silent down. Xiao Lin several tears come up, only of castle peak, is there a way to xiao Lin cry out.
Two personal friendship, with "because of friendship is noble, so finally had to rupture" to describe the performance, obviously, the depth of the friendship, actually with terrible danger.
About this, Arab have this proverb: mood together, but live tent to separate.
In order to avoid to produce "too sticky relationship" friend, sometimes also need ceremonies and rituals. This takes consideration and real sincere.
With the deepening of relationships with friends, although each other to see the shadow of their heart, and gradually part, in order to continue to maintain friendship relations, at this time will need to have "consideration" to do so.
This gentle and considerate and where do you come from? Say simply a bit, from people will die consciously and to it. Life too much unpredictable affair, the future what exactly happens also completely unknown, only one will die is sure. This matter, how consciousness is very important. When feel each other all die, beyond good and evil, to rich and poor, length, the world of evaluation of the common living in this world, and for a short time, nature can produce gentle and considerate heart.
In this layer sense, the deep friendship will gradually close to religious type feelings. Although "caring" support friendship, but can touted in the public under declare "Wen neck in", may be some lack of reflection of the earth.
"Sincerity" and "thoughtful" is illuminate friendship promising two stars. I think everyone can find their friendship to light up the "stars".
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