Learn to forget

 One night, I went to see a friend was framed, while have a meal, the friend answer a call, I listen to out is to tell a friend he was framed the man who is, friends say that you don't tell me, and I don't want to know. I have some surprise, friend explained, know what? Some things don't need to know, and some things need to forget.

I admire the friends and open-minded. Life is full often, enjoy yourself, you have to give yourself the reduced pressure, decompression of good method is to learn to forget, life need to be able to get up, sometimes to put next is more important. There is a small story in the buddhist scriptures, said the young monk and the old monk go together priest, the young monk courtesy, what matter all looked at the master, went to the river, a woman should cross the river, the old monk take up woman over the river, and the woman, to say thank you left, the young monk had thought, how can the master back that woman across the river? But he was afraid to ask, walked 20 in, he was true to can not contain, asked the teacher, we are monks, how can you back that woman across the river? The master said flatly, I take her back to put down across the river, but you back her 20 in haven't put down.

If full of zen monk, think carefully, and also is the life of truth. The life of people like a long, hard, keep walking along the way, will see all kinds of scenery, after many many difficulties, if the walk through to see the bear in mind that the heart, can give oneself increment a lot of extra burden, the rich experience, the greater the pressure as along the way all the way forget, always maintain a clean SLATE. The past passed by, the time may not go back, in addition to learn lessons outside, can need not to heart.

Willing to forget is a kind of psychological balance, need to come true to life. Some people are able to forget the embarrassment of disappointment and distress, but the proud of prosperity with relish, do you not know that the success and failure will stay in the past, always can't get to dwell in the past, always said I young how that would how, take dot-gone when eyes beauty, make passing clouds in the heart always remain, complacency, smug and unto you and vain in, will we grow old by deserting our ideas, gets cold feet. No mention of that brave hero is reasonable. And repeated chewing the pain of the past, always a face of fierce and more slim. India poet tagore said "if you miss the sun, you also will cry to lose the stars." .stop haggle over every ounce, for Chen sesame lousy millet from, if you put your heart ship of unbearable heavy burden, of the memory of the boat carrying not bottom, will let the pain of the past pin down the future. An old saying goes: the angry is that taking the other's mistake to punish oneself. Always yearned the disadvantages of others, in fact too is oneself, let bygones be bygones, is happy easy.

Forget the need to choose, some people, some things in your life can't forget, not forgotten. Arab famous writer ali, once and the journey, Martha two friends travel together. Three people walking through a valley, Martha slip slide. But the journey to pull him, will he rescued. Martha and in the nearby rocks the head wrote: "once upon a time, the journey save misha life." Three people continue to go a few days, came to a place the river, the journey with Martha for a small matter of noisy, the journey flay play misha a box on the ear. Martha ran to the beach on to write down: "once upon a time, a dozen misha a box on his ears hurt." When they travel after come back, ali curiously ask why Martha friend who saved and slapped him on the stone, will play his journey, you wrote in the sand? Martha answered: "I never appreciate the journey to save me, I'll keep that in mind. As for him to play me, I only with the beach of the disappeared, and forget about". This story tell us, remember others help to you, forget others is bad, it is the duty of a person.

Many people like to such a vernacular poems: spring flowers on a autumn have, summer is cool winter with snow. If have no business hanging heart, is a good time to earth. Remember something some people, forget something someone, remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten, free and easy life, friends who stood by, you will feel that life is so good.