In the 2005 Spring Festival evening party, GuoDongLin, NiuLi a sketch of the man men "broadcast, has left a deep impression to me. The actors wonderful to deduce, funny performance, let a person feel both funny and with a long finish. Especially that "impulse is the ()devil" lines also became a great sensation of the vulgar. A line "impulse is handcuffs, impulse is shackles, impulse is life eaten out regret medicine." Classics. Nowadays, a lot of people in order to trivial things, impulsive, a bidding war, even out of the lives of lawsuit, and some people be money, interest blinded, TuCaiHaiMing, on the illegal, way of crime, this also is endless. In strongly() advocated the harmonious society today, the environment of the background, learn to reason, calm of others doing things is particularly important. The contradictions appear to timely initiative to resolve to make "to dwindle, consequence".
When a person impulse, to their full attention was focused on the lead to impulsively he this one thing, and for the rest of the consequences of such problems such as there is no time and space to consider. So people just said, "impulse is the devil." Between people, ()hard to avoid can happen so that friction, conflicts, human life, also may not always smooth sailing, inevitably will appear the twists and turns, confused, but if we learn to reason, can rationally and disposal problems and contradictions, that our life will be happy, sunshine, happy. In the life, the rational to face renditions of society, also can make our life increase grade. The reason is a sign of mature and success of the starting point, is everyone to enjoy work and the joy of living must have the elements. Calm reason is a kind of good psychological quality and accomplishment, have this kind of quality of the people both in life or in the work, wouldn't be ()happiness, anger, sadness and joy and other emotional disturbances, in various special emergency situations can maintain the stability of the mood. This quality is the need to learn, exercise can form. With this quality, can calm, cool mind, his outwardly don't panic, the perfect setting. Ancient sages have profoundly describe this accomplishment state: "taishan collapse before and color in the same". Learn to reason, put in the work and the life of the encounter with some unpleasant things, as the life of a polish, and optimistic treat all kinds setbacks, use reason to feel true meaning, in the work and the life to enjoy happiness in happiness do every thing, happily through each day.
That how to reason about the problems and handle the problem? First to tolerance. "Empty sea, tolerance is a great", tolerant of people, good to conscience, can dissolve the bits and pieces YouYuan, winning one friendship. No one can be perfect, perfect, ()we have no reason to GaoShanAngZhi eyes to look at others, also not qualified to use an air of disdain to laugh at others, a should to others, not back and not the treat one another as equals, not only is to others personality and value affirmation, also can make their own popularity increase greatly. Next to learn to control consciousness. When the mood will erupt at angrily, want to use consciousness control and to remind myself shall be rational. Again, reaction properly. To others not fussy about every detail, don't of retaliation. When is not being treated fairly, anyone will burn in anger, but no matter what matter, should be calm, cool, don't embrace the into insightful let the other side understand his mistake in, and should not be quickly to make unreasonable back, which deprived the other party acknowledgement mistake of opportunity. Finally, learn to do as you would be done by. All things to care about Liverpool, if anything, you can stand in each other's perspective, more consideration for others, in treating the contradictions and friction will calm much, much more rational.
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