Going in the wrong direction to remember to stop

 Signature: the other day meet a net friend, simple chatted, found that her experience unusual, mother early wu, father spirit has a problem, a perennial some stray, in recent years to find, but the only brother recently was missing. She drifted away, although already married but always feel life tasteless, see the light, XinHui on top of the world, even the idea of a suicide. I don't know how to explain and convince her, he wrote this journal to reply to her, hope she can cheer up.
Just because a friend less, we just want to treasure more; Because of life tired, we need to more efforts;
Bad people thought life better life good people who want to live better, it is a "to". As long as you are in the world, will not escape the name and struggle. People are not always be smoked the interests of heart, he just wanted to make them more and more, and the world is engaged. Say what LiLu fame, and in you as the floating clouds, or words to that effect, this is to meet our content the necessary condition. After name and profit in my opinion is not a bad thing, at least you have the pursuit of material, it is also your motivation. People alive is to seek not material and spirit of the enjoy? You have no "to" how to "beg"? Don't go to unreal material and spirit of being, this is not our the generality of the world can feel. We want to do is simply survival, as for the next higher level of spirit? As long as fulfill self can.
As long as you are in all the world, will be around for the tired, because you can't let go of all around you, it is a "read". Don't say you already forgo our earth, life or death described the words like, it's just escape. Since you came to this world, it is no longer for yourself, was born. Many people are born for another, including your family, your friends, and even you don't know. What is "beyond"? In my opinion "beyond" is not only is the sublimation of the spirit world, and his form? A person's spirit and his body is not divided, intangible, no god, and no god but can be the tangible. So I think shape than god important, so you don't want to go to sublimate their spirit and burned their own youth, that it's not worth it. God both party show life form of wonderful. Sage Confucius learned of it, no one can and should be, of life, the world he is thoroughly. But when he saw the water flow unavoidable also said it passes like this water?" , as so great that is people are so repeal to time, and there's no reason that we go to lament the world, ShiXi life?
People always have lost, hesitation, fear and the retreat of the time; But this is only a temporary, we must learn from moved out of the mist. One's faults is thought too complex, the advantages of the people is it can change their ideas. Don't always go to see someone's life, people want to live in their own world. You always look at the other people's life, hard to avoid can be lost their own happiness. Going in the wrong direction to remember to stop; Have lost their remember back.
Wake up! My friend along the way where there is no thorns bumpy, a gift to you in order to experience of suffering are you will, one of the most difficult is to conquer yourself, the breakthrough self, you can't even Passover, how can bring relatives to the joys and happiness!
My friends, don't be like the clark mansion and cheung, and be like a bird that rise up and fly peng, when you hover at the top looking down at her life, you will feel the life the scenery never just one place; And those who will not over your mind tangled up in the haze.