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    Our english teacher ask us to write an article:how to be an ideal wife or husband.Now i put what i have written here so i could check whether i have done it years later and whether i'm right :

 

    To be someone's wife is not just mean to have only one role to act, what's more, you also have to act well at some other roles: to be his children's good mother,to be his parents' dear daughter. 

    To be a wife is not only just mean to be a wife at the ususl time. You must be a solemate who can listen to his hardness and encourge him when he's in a hard time;  a real friend who can play with him and relax his exhaustion when he is tired; a person who can share his happiness from the bottom of heart and also remind him of not to be arrogant when he made success;  a tolerant elder who can tolerate his shortcomings and help him to overcome the with patience just like treating an innocent kids.

 

    It seems you have so many things to do ,but you didn't feel a thing only as you do all this as for the reason you love him. To be an ideal wife,we must:

    Love his parents. Without his parents, you have no chance to meet him, let alone to be his wife. You must love and thank for his parents, treat them just as your own.

    Love his children. We love the children not only because it's us who give birth to the babies with huge pain, but also as they are the lovely kids of the person we love.

    Respect his friends and accept his favourites. As an old saying goes like this:" love me, love my dog." Perhaps some of his friends or habbies may be exactly the kind we don't like, but there must be a reason for them to be his favourites. If we couldn't like them just like he does even after trying our best, we should at least respect these friends and accept his hobbies.

 

    Subsume his shortcomings and help him to overcome. There's no person in the world who is perfect. If we choose the one, we must like his strong points as we tolerate his weakness.

 

    To be the bosom friend of him. We should support his in dilemma, and share sorrows and joys, failure and success with him ,and " to have adn to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part."

 

    Doing all of this lead to an ideal wife? Definitely not. The last but not the least is that we are the image of our husband, so we should enrich ourselves, love ourselves, making us widsom and perfect.

 

    To be an ideal wife is not an easy thing, but it is something that filled with sweetness and happiness to be the one of your lover.